by MentalGiant » Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:18 pm
Let me just say, it isn't fair how the judge makes the decision who gets to see who when and where. Every time I went to pick my kids up, I would see cat feces on the floor in many different spots. Food that has been laying out for days. Clothes laying every where. But, this was typical of my ex-wife. She was lazy.
When we were together, I would come home after a long day at work, 10 to 12hrs, house was in a mess. I would tolerated some days, but some days I would ask why didn't wash dishes, wash some clothes, vacuum the living room etc... She would make the comment "She was to busy watching our son". So, I would say, why don't you run to so and so restaurant to get us some dinner and I'll watch our son why do so. While she was, I would pick up the living room, clean up the kitchen, while all the same time keeping an eye on our son. She would come back, she will notice what I have done and says "I was going to do that since you were home now and could watch our son". That just tore me up inside with here saying that.
What worries me, my kids have grown up thinking living like that is ok. To me, it just shows how lazy you are by not picking up after yourself. They haven't gotten to the point they don't like coming over to my place because they have to pick up after themselves.
Tried to custody, judge wouldn't find her as a unfit mother, because didn't have proof, because every time DHS went to visit, she would get a warning before hand, since she has to relatives that worked for DHS and would clean up to a more satisfactory condition. So, here I am pay child support, not seeing my kids as often as I like.
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